Thursday, December 2, 2010

Why is it so hard?

We have told close family (except my sis-in-law) and friends, but not EVERYONE!  My dear hubby wants to wait until she is done taking care of some family...and that will probably be around Christmas.  Last time we told everyone at Christmas she hid in her room the rest of the weekend...I don't think she likes me very much, or she used to didn't like me...I don't know why, I did nothing to her, she just hated me from the beginning.  She is getting better, and she loves Jonathan to pieces, but telling her we are pregnant again I am afraid that she'll go back into her hole and hide there for awhile...she is actually talking to me now and acknowledging I am there and alive, whereas before she wouldn't even look at me.  I wish people that had a problem with me would tell me why they have the problem with me...
I mean she hadn't even met me yet and had formed opinions about me, I try to say hi the first time she comes over to her brothers house, and she walks right by and says I'm going to bed and doesn't say hi or introduce herself...OKAY...that makes a person feel good...
And the Christmas we told everyone she was talking to her mom and made her cry, because my husbands sister thinks he's changed since I've been in his life...Ummmmmm he's been the same person since the first day I met him, if anything he's more playful and I don't see that as a bad thing...anywho...sorry for the ranting,  but I just wish some people would grow up!  Oh did I mention she's 32...

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